The Moment of Lift

 Book 70 of my 2026 Reading Challenge

read from July 5 - 15

The Moment of Lift

by Melinda Gates

published 2019

4 stars

The book was engaging and well-written.  The author did a great job of centering the people on the ground directly working or benefitting from the programs so for this type of book, it felt light on any "savior" complexes.  The author quoted Vishwajeet Kumar and it hit me: "Their cup is not empty; you can't just pour your ideas into it. Their cup is already full, so you have to understand what is in their cup."  The people the programs are for are not blank slates just waiting for someone to tell them what to do. 

When I say 'this type of book', I mean books that usually only find friendly audiences (on both sides of any spectrum).  Most people picking up this book already care about these issues so they don't need to be convinced and anyone who might benefit from learning something isn't picking up this book.  But what made this book different is all the examples and really stressing small things that can create bigger ripples.  

Something I noted about myself as I read...I found myself less interested reading the chapters about the U.S. than other countries.  When I thought about why (I have a psych degree, analyzing is my favorite hobby), I realized seeing things firsthand makes me much more cynical and less hopeful about the changes the author would like to see.  To quote the author, "we're quick to criticize gender injustice when we see it around the world. We also need to see it where most of us feel it and can do something about it - in the places where we work."

It was a little weird to read about her marriage and partnership knowing they later divorced.

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Ways This Book Met my 2026 Reading Goals:

- 70th book read in 2026 (my goal is 100)

- A book I purchased in 2026 (my goal is to read any books I buy within 6 months of purchasing them)

Marry Me a Little

 Book 69 of my 2026 Reading Challenge

read on July 12

Marry Me a Little

by Rob Kirby

published 2023

5 stars

I think nonfiction graphic novels are something I'm going to seek out more.  This book is a memoir and it was mainly celebrating love and partnership while also touching on the world outside of their home and how it affected their ability to "officially" do so.  The book ended before the second Trump term and I want to look them up and see how they're doing; I hope it's well.

Also, love the title.  Something about it made me smile every time I picked the book up.

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Ways This Book Met my 2026 Reading Goals:

- 69th book read in 2026 (my goal is 100)

Happily Ever After

 Book 68 of my 2026 Reading Challenge

read on July 9

Happily Ever After & Everything In Between

by Debbie Tung

published 2020

3 stars

A very quick read, it was fine.  It's the kind of book where I'm glad I was able to check it out from the library; I'm not sure I've ever purchased a graphic novel but always look at the section when browsing libraries.

I do like the cozy feel of this book.  A lot of books in this vein are criticism disguised as jokes but I could feel that she actually likes her husband which is always nice to see.

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Ways This Book Met my 2026 Reading Goals:

- 68th book read in 2026 (my goal is 100)

A Quiet Kind of Thunder

 Book 67 of my 2026 Reading Challenge

read from July 5 - 9

A Quiet Kind of Thunder

by Sara Barnard

published 2018

4 stars

I picked this book while browsing at the library and I'm glad I did.  It was perfect for me at this time of my mental capacity - it was engaging but also light.  There was conflict but with an undercurrent of safety that the conflict wouldn't go too far.

I love young love and the author did a good job of letting the characters have big feelings without being melodramatic.  It was cheesy but in a good, realistic way.  I'm also glad there was medication and therapy involved in progress and not a magical 'I met the right person and it's all fixed now'.

As a note not related to the book, what a big difference technology has made to communicating with a deaf person.  They use texting/apps in the book and in real life on a vacation, I saw someone holding their phone to catch the tour guide's words and then it was transcribed into something they could read on their screen.  Subtle ways to stay engaged without feeling like a spectacle.  "Back in my day" (as I sound 100 and not 47 years old)...I dated a deaf person in college pre-cell phones.  We didn't live in the same town and when we wanted to talk on the phone, I would call a special number and talk to a person who would then transcribe what I was saying to him through his TTY machine.  Then he would type back and the person would read what he said to me.  It would be someone different every time and it was a little awkward at times getting used to it (such as when an older woman with an Asian accent told me "I had a fun time on our date last night").  I thought it would be a fun job but it's probably obsolete now.

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Ways This Book Met my 2026 Reading Goals:

- 67th book read in 2026 (my goal is 100)

- Title starting with 'Q' (I'm doing an A-Z title challenge)

Everyone in the Group Chat Dies

 Book 66 of my 2026 Reading Challenge

read from July 2 - 4

Everyone in the Group Chat Dies

by L.M. Chilton

2 stars

Good concept that didn't fully deliver for me.  I'm glad it wasn't too 'quirky' or 'jokey' but it was hard to reconcile so many deaths with the superficial lightness of the read.  It either needed to stay frothy and not have everyone die or it needed to get gritty and have some depth.

I continued reading and read it quickly because I wanted to know the ending but it all came together so quickly and felt cobbled together that it wasn't satisfying. 

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Ways This Book Met my 2026 Reading Goals:

- 66th book read in 2026 (my goal is 100)

Code Name Helene

 Book 65 of my 2026 Reading Challenge

read from June 18 - July 1

Code Name Helene

by Ariel Lawhon

published 2020

4 stars

I read this at the recommendation of my daughter.  Riveting and easy to get lost in, this book was especially interesting since it was based on a true story.  Certain things devastated me but that's real life.

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Ways This Book Met my 2026 Reading Goals:

- 65th book read in 2026 (my goal is 100)

Somebody is Walking on Your Grave

 Book 64 of my 2026 Reading Challenge

read from June 21 - 27

Somebody is Walking on Your Grave: My Cemetery Journeys

by Mariana Enriquez

published 2025

3 stars

The pictures were great, the history was interesting, the writing was fine.

I also have a fascination with cemeteries and their architecture and history.  The author travels specifically for cemeteries but I don't, although my husband will usually try and find a cemetery to visit during trips we're taking.  I've visited two of the cemeteries the author talked about in this book, Greyfriar's in Edinburgh and Montparnasse in Paris.

Maybe it was because it's a translation but I felt a detachment from the writing.  The author did a good job describing the history of the places she visited but I didn't feel as much emotion from her as I think she was trying to convey when talking about her reasons for visiting and how she felt when she was there.

The author seemed anti-tourist and judgmental about others, as though she was there for the "right reasons" and others weren't.  I already didn't like that but then she told the story about STEALING A BONE from the Innocents.  That's so disrespectful but to have that coupled with her writing about other visitors, it felt hypocritical.

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Ways This Book Met my 2026 Reading Goals:

- 64th book read in 2026 (my goal is 100)