Saturday, December 31, 2022

The A to Z of You and Me

 Book 67 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

The A to Z of You and Me
by James Hannah

4 stars

The A to Z game is suggested to Ivo by a nurse as a way to pass the time.  He's in hospice nearing the end of his life and playing this game in his mind is a way to reflect on his life and keep his mind occupied.

I was looking for a quick read I could get lost in while de-stressing from all the Christmas hubbub and this book fit the bill.  It was sad but also clear.  Ivo was an easy character to root for, even with all his faults.

A Room Called Earth

 Book 66 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

A Room Called Earth
by Madeleine Ryan

3 stars

A Room Called Earth takes place over the course of one evening in a young woman's life.  I didn't realize until just now that she literally doesn't have a name.  It's first-person so I didn't really notice but looking back, she never introduces herself or has a conversation that references her name.  And as I'm flipping through to verify that I realize nobody has names.  Interesting.

Anyway, she seems self-aware so it wasn't so bad reading her inner monologues but man, some of those conversations made me cringe!  The spacing also made it hard to distinguish who is talking, especially when she was speaking in a group of 3.

I loved the line, "Although she desperately wants to be seen, she doesn't want to take up space."

The Boy and Girl Who Broke the World

 Book 65 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

The Boy and Girl Who Broke the World
by Amy Reed

4 stars

Published in 2019, The Boy and Girl Who Broke the World is about Billy and Lydia, two loners who find friendship and other unexpected things when they start hanging out together.  

Although it took some time before we started getting answers about the strange things happening, it was really refreshing to read a teen book without a romance aspect between the two main characters. And "Rainy Day Knife Fight" is a great name for a band!

Quote from the Book

"Animals hide when they are wounded. They snarl at anyone who comes near."

Men Explain Things to Me

Book 64 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Men Explain Things to Me
by Rebecca Solnit

5 stars

Published in 2014, Men Explain Things to Me is a collection of essays with a theme of violence against women running throughout.  I wish it didn't read as though it could've been written in 2022; substituting more current names and situations would be the only changes needed.

I read this in one sitting but it's a book I will also revisit and share with those around me.

Quote from the Book
"Most women fight wars on two fronts, one for whatever the putative topic is and one simply for the right to speak, to have ideas, to be acknowledged to be in possession of facts and truths, to have value, to be a human being."

Stories from Quarantine

 Book 63 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Stories from Quarantine
by various authors

5 stars

An alternate title of this book is The Decameron Project.  In March 2020 the editors of The New York Times Magazine reached out to authors for stories about Covid-19.  Even though they're fiction stories they're pulled from experiences we all shared and are generating real reactions from me remembering.  I wish it wasn't still so familiar as I read this in 2022 but this book will also help with reflection when someday (hopefully) this is all a distant memory.


Hidden Power

 Book 62 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Hidden Power: Presidential Marriages That Shaped Our History
by Kati Marton

4 stars

This was published in 2002 and my first thought was that the Obamas would've made an excellent addition to these examples; I want an updated edition after a few more presidencies have passed!  

I also noticed how the way people view the Clintons has changed with time - the book being written shortly after Bill left office just as Hillary was being elected to the Senate paints a different picture than history now reflects.  

Looking at the marriages and partnerships instead of the individuals is an angle I haven't seen before but makes complete sense.  Of course the presidency is shaped by the president's home life.  All in all, a really interesting and well-researched book.




Darkest Mercy

 Book 61 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Darkest Mercy
by Melissa Marr

4 stars

Published in 2011, Darkest Mercy is the 5th and final book of the "Wicked Lovely" series.  I'm glad I checked all 5 books out at once so I could read the series quickly from start to finish.

The book had some new plots but mainly wrapped up the series and all of the characters had some sort of closure.  I was surprised and satisfied with the ending.  I'm also glad the series ended when it did instead of continuing to expand.

When I Found You

 Book 60 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

When I Found You
by Catherine Ryan Hyde

4 stars

Published in 2013, When I Found You is the story of Nathan, a man who finds an abandoned newborn in the woods and Nat, the boy he found.  I grabbed it on a whim from Prime Reading and I'm so glad I did.  I'm a sucker for stoic men with gruff exteriors (being a farmer is a plus) who unexpectedly find someone they can let their guard down with.

This book surprised me with its depth and simple emotional pull.  It may not touch everyone but it was the right book at the right time for me and I felt it.

The Stroke of Winter

 Book 59 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

The Stroke of Winter
by Wendy Webb

4 stars

I really enjoy this author so I grabbed and read this book right away when it was an Amazon First Reads option.  She paints scenes so well and since many of her books take place in cold and/or foggy places, I can always feel the chill as I'm reading.

It was a good read with an unexpected ending.  I also liked all of the characters and would read more about them (maybe a series with the ghost hunting club?)

A Treasury of Great American Scandals

 Book 58 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

A Treasury of Great American Scandals: Tantalizing True Tales of Historic Misbehavior by the Founding Fathers and Others Who Let Freedom Swing
by Michael Farquhar

3 stars

This is a lighthearted look at the humanness of historical figures.  He specifically mentions he focuses on individuals, not institutions, and leaves the heavy-hitting misbehavior to those writers who will give it the weight it deserves.  He also notes a conscious choice to not write about anything past 1980 to give history a chance to reflect (this book was written in 2003).

This was a quick way to pass some time and I'd read his other book (A Treasury of Royal Scandals) if I came across it.

Radiant Shadows

 Book 57 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Radiant Shadows
by Melissa Marr

3 stars

Published in 2010, Radiant Shadows is the 4th book in the "Wicked Lovely" series.  I'm still enjoying the series enough to read the 5th and final book right away but this book was darker and tenser than the other books and less fun.  There were so many moving pieces there wasn't as much time to focus on the personalities and interactions.  

I'm interested to see how this all ends.

The Best American Short Stories 1992

 Book 56 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

The Best American Short Stories 1992
by various authors

3 stars

All in all, these were quiet stories that passed by like little snapshots of life.  After finishing I realized they're listed in alphabetical order by author so similarities between a few at the end were coincidental.

The Last Lovely City
I was nervous while reading it because I thought it was going in a different direction.  After reflecting on it I realize how much of the scenarios playing out were in his own head and not what was actually happening around him.

Days of Heaven
That story made me uneasy.  Even though the people weren't being cruel to animals all the talk of hunting and natural death of animals around them in the woods made me sad.  

A Different Kind of Imperfection
I really liked the characters and would've read more of their story.  

Silver Water
I could feel all the emotions just below the surface in this story.  Mental illness is hard for the loved ones as well and it's frustrating to try and find care and help.

A Good Scent from a Strange Mountain
There were a lot of words for a short story and I had to re-read passages to remain grounded in what was happening.

Across the Bridge
The story was fine but felt long for a short story because of the actual number of pages but also because my mind kept wandering.  I wasn't super interested.

Same Place, Same Things
That story pulled me right in.  There was an underlying sense of how one poor choice could have catastrophic decisions but as I read I didn't know which choice (regarding the woman) would be the poor one.

Emergency
That was quick and readable even though I had no idea what was real and what was in the narrator's (drugged) imagination.

The Pugilist at Rest
This story was graphic and tough for me to read because my dad was injured in Vietnam and it affected him for the rest of his life.  

JunHee
BEST SO FAR.  That had the perfect waves of emotions threading through the story and ended at a perfect time.

Community Life
That was good but in an uncomfortable way.  The characters were well-written but cringey and unlikeable, the kind you want to yell at to make better choices.

Carried Away
It started really strongly but by the time it reached Arthur's perspective it was getting a little long and then the ending at the depot went off the rails entirely.

Is Laughter Contagious?
The story was difficult to read because everyone was awful.  

The Fare to the Moon
AMONG BEST.  Everyone was on the same page and even though there was pain, they were honest and there wasn't unnecessary pain due to miscommunication.  It was a good length and even though there were no resolutions now that I think about it, I felt satisfied somehow.

It's Come to This
Meh.  When I take breaks during a short story that's a sign it has not held my interest at all.

The Way People Run
That was unsettling.  It was fine for a short story but I would've tired of the main character if it had gone on much longer.

Forever Overhead
I'm familiar with this author and he always paints such a visceral picture with the details.  My palms were as sweaty as I imagine the main character's were as he was reaching the end of the diving board and deciding whether or not to jump.

Under the Roof
The ending was abrupt and confusing.  I feel like it was supposed to be an "Aha!" moment but I must have missed something because it didn't answer any questions for me.

The Golden Darters
Maybe it's me because this is another story I just couldn't get into.  

Firelight
That was a good story.  


Sorry I'm Late, I Didn't Want to Come

 Book 55 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Sorry I'm Late, I Didn't Want to Come: One Introvert's Year of Saying Yes
by Jessica Pan

3 stars

Published in 2019, Sorry I'm Late covers a year of the author's life as she attempts activities outside her comfort zone and challenges her introverted tendencies.  I'm an introvert myself and while I can understand wanting to push boundaries a little bit, this was such a 180 I really struggled to understand why she would put herself through this.  I felt a lot of secondhand embarrassment and some of the things even extroverts would struggle with.

I noticed the author had some "not supposed to" responses to her natural inclinations, such as not bringing books or visiting museums on a trip.  It's fine to want to push yourself to explore more but why completely deny yourself things you enjoy?  Extroverts enjoy museums too.

I definitely want to listen to the podcast The Moth after reading about it, it sounds like something I'd really like.

Excuse Me While I Disappear

Book 54 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Excuse Me While I Disappear: Tales of Midlife Mayhem
by Laurie Notaro

3 stars

For some reason I keep trying this author so I gave this book 3 stars because I should've known it wasn't for me after giving two other books of hers 1 star and 2 stars.  I need to stop.

The story about being up at night and all the drugs and drinks was presented as funny and relatable but it was just sad. 

Fragile Eternity

Book 53 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Fragile Eternity 
by Melissa Marr

4 stars

Published in 2009, Fragile Eternity is the third book in the "Wicked Lovely" series.  As I mentioned in my review of Ink Exchange (the second book), I like that this series builds off of previous stories but makes different characters the main focus.  So they should be read in order and the reader does get updates about previous characters' lives but it keeps things fresh and new as new perspectives come in and the world expands.  

As for this book, I like that the conflicts are from situations and not unnecessarily complicated by a lack of communication (it's a big pet peeve of mine when pages are spent worrying about something a simple conversation could've fixed).  A lot of things kept happening but it made sense.  

I plan on continuing the series right away - there are two more books to go.

Accidental Presidents

 Book 52 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Accidental Presidents
by Jared Cohen

4 stars

Published in 2019, Accidental Presidents covers the 8 vice-presidents who became president upon the death in office of their predecessor and how they shaped history.  They are John Tyler (William Henry Harrison), Millard Fillmore (Zachery Taylor), Andrew Johnson (Abraham Lincoln), Chester Arthur (James Garfield), Theodore Roosevelt (William McKinley), Calvin Coolidge (Warren Harding), and Lyndon B. Johnson (John F. Kennedy).  

It was well-written and interesting.  I learned a lot.

I didn't realize the succession order wasn't officially made until 1947.  If John Tyler hadn't made the decision to succeed Harrison and there had been new elections (either by the people or by Congress), our entire system would be different.  I also didn't realize there was a vice-president that died in office (Garret Hobart in 1899); vice-presidents really do become lost in history.

Although Gerald Ford was briefly mentioned, his circumstances and challenges were obviously different than those mentioned above.

I can tell this was a passion project for the author; the bibliography of his sources was 18 pages of small print!

Quote from the Book
"Eight times a Vice President has become president upon the death of his predecessor - history altered by a heartbeat. This is the story of how these eight men, neither the voters' nor their party's choice, dealt with that power and changed history, for better or worse."

More Tales Behind the Tombstones

 Book 51 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

More Tales Behind the Tombstone: More Deaths and Burials of the Old West's Most Nefarious Outlaws, Notorious Women, and Celebrated Lawmen
by Chris Enss

4 stars

I've always had a fascination with cemeteries and obituaries so this book was right up my alley.  I'm glad women were included, especially women who were up to no good, because that doesn't often happen when looking back at the past.

While the photo itself of the shoes made from George Parrot's skin wasn't gross, the idea behind it is.  Why would someone ever do that?

Quote from the Book

"While cemeteries house the dead, the tombstones record not only their pleasures, sorrows, and hopes for an afterlife, but also more than they realize of their history, ethnicity and culture."

Stockholm

Book 50 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Stockholm
by Catherine Steadman

4 stars

Published in 2022, Stockholm is a short story from the "Getaway" series published by Amazon.  This one was a doozy.  The only way I can describe it is that it made my teeth hurt while I was reading it because I was so uncomfortable and nervous.  It was good as a short story but would've been too much as a longer book.

The Case of the Ugly Suitor

 Book 49 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

The Case of the Ugly Suitor and Other Histories of Love, Gender, and Nation in Bueno Aires, 1776-1870
by Jeffrey M. Shumway

2 stars

Published in 2005, the title alone lets the reader know this will be a non-fiction, textbook type of read but I was disappointed because of my expectations.  Based on the title and description, I thought the main focus would be individual cases or people with a backdrop of the country and culture as a whole that would help keep things in context.  However, the opposite was true and while there would definitely be an audience for this book, unfortunately that audience is not me.  The inserts helped add context and the author's interest in the topic showed in his writing and obvious research.

Basically, if the whole book had been more like Chapter 4, I would've liked it a lot more.  This rating is my personal preference though.  While typically that would lead me to a more neutral 3 star rating since I'm not the target audience, I'm lowering it to 2 stars in this case because I picked it up thinking I was based on the description.

Ink Exchange

 Book 48 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Ink Exchange
by Melissa Marr

3 stars

Published in 2008, Ink Exchange is the second book in the "Wicked Lovely" series.  I expected it to be building off where the last one left off but it was a pleasant surprise that characters that were side characters in the first book became the main characters in this one.  It still helps to read the series in order because the timeline picks up where the first book left off and previous characters are still there so we see how their stories continue.  

I liked the world building and will continue the series right away but the story arc specific to this book wasn't as intriguing to me as Wicked Lovely.  It was still a good read though.


His Happy Place

Book 47 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

His Happy Place
by Zakiya Dalila Harris

3 stars 

This short story is part of the "Getaway" series from Prime Reading.  The prologue helped explain the ending but also hurt the story itself.  Since I knew what was going to happen it made the character's waffling on if she was hallucinating or not unnecessary.  This format works in longer books because the reader kind of forgets or isn't sure what the journey to the ending will be but in a short story there aren't enough characters to muddle things up (so even in a first-person story it is clear who the narrator is and who the victim will be).

It Happened in Iowa

 Book 46 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

It Happened in Iowa: Remarkable Events that Shaped History
by Tammy Partsch

4 stars

As the title states, this book covers events in Iowa.  It's in chronological order and the chapters are short and succinct like a book report.  It was interesting and accessible and would be good as supplemental material for a class.

This was a book my husband and I read aloud together, an event or two at a time over the course of months.  We're both Iowa natives (and still live there) and the book had a good mix of events we'd heard of and new ones we learned about.

Now that we're finished with it I haven't decided yet if I'm going to keep it or donate it to our local library.


Wicked Lovely

 Book 45 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Wicked Lovely
by Melissa Marr

4 stars

Published in 2007, Wicked Lovely is the first book in the "Wicked Lovely" series.  Aislinn can see the faeries roaming the world even though most humans can't.  She follows specific rules to avoid recognition but when the Summer King decides she is destined to be his queen, everything changes. 

I really liked this book.  The story wasn't complicated by lying - everyone laid their cards out pretty quickly and the complications came from their reactions and disagreements on how to move forward, not more contrived miscommunication issues.

I plan on continuing the series but this book could stand alone if a reader decided it wasn't for them.  The main issues of this book were resolved by the end and I assume the continuation of the series will be expanding on what those resolutions mean.

Shell Game

 Book 44 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Shell Game
by Rumaan Alam

2 stars

This short story is part of the "Getaway" series from Amazon.  I didn't really understand the story itself and feel like I must be missing something because I also don't understand how it fit the theme of the series.  I don't normally look at reviews before posting my own but I did for this story and it makes me feel a little better that I'm not the only one that was a little lost after finishing it.

Catch Her in a Lie

 Book 43 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Catch Her in a Lie
by Jess Lourey

2 stars

This short story is part of the "Getaway" series available through Prime Reading on Amazon.  I didn't really like this one but can't fully explain why.  I think more backstory would've helped me care about the characters or be more invested in the ending but at the same time, I wouldn't have wanted this scenario to be drawn-out any further.  This just wasn't for me.

Belle Mer

 Book 42 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Belle Mer
by Luanne Rice

3 stars

This short story is part of the "Getaway" series published by Amazon.  I didn't see the big twist coming but it may have been a little too ambitious for a short story; some things were glossed over or rushed and not explained as well as they could've been.

Uncharted Waters

Book 41 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Uncharted Waters
by Sally Hepworth

3 stars

Uncharted Waters is a short story that takes place on a charter boat at sea.  Ella is unexpectedly alone after her husband can't make the trip, giving her the opportunity to discover new things about herself.  It is the first book in the "Getaway" series.

Since this was a short story everything developed very quickly.  The setting of the sea helped explain the immediacy of some bonds since this was a small group spending many waking hours together.  There were also seemingly very out-of-character moments that happened with little hesitation but everything happened so quickly I didn't really notice until it was over and I was reflecting.

I rounded up to 3 stars since it was a short story.  If it had been any longer or tried to expand relationships any further, I would've rounded down to 2.  All in all a quick read that was unpredictable and I will continue the series (which appear to be by different authors).

Mother of All Secrets

Book 40 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Mother of All Secrets
by Kathleen M. Willett

3 stars

Published in 2022, Mother of All Secrets centers around Jenn, a new mom who joins a moms' group hoping to regain some semblance of herself but instead becomes involved in a mystery when the group leader disappears.

I'd already chosen this book from Amazon First Reads but bumped it to the top of my list after a friend's review on Goodreads.  I like reading mysteries on my e-reader because I turn the page count off and having no idea how much is left of the book really helps keep me guessing when it comes to clues.

This is the kind of book that kept my interest while reading but doesn't really hold up to scrutiny when reflecting on it.  There were lots of coincidences and the characters had to interact in unusual ways to keep the story moving - not sharing basic information that would've revealed things earlier yet oversharing deep secrets at the same time to help move things along.

I would recommend it as a quick way to pass the time but don't overthink it when you're done.

XX

Book 39 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

XX
by Rian Hughes

3 stars

This book caught my eye as I was walking around the library because the title started with "X" and that's usually a hard letter to get on my A-Z challenge.  That was a risk considering the book is almost 1000 pages but luckily it didn't feel that long.  There were different formats and styles used throughout the book that broke it up so it wasn't just a slog of words.

Published in 2020, XX is about the aftermath of discovering and trying to decode a mysterious signal sent from space.  I gave up trying to understand it pretty early and when I decided not to overthink it and just watch the story as a bystander it zipped right along.  I really liked the characters and their group dynamic.

Vampires Never Get Old

 Book 38 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Vampires Never Get Old: Tales with Fresh Bite
by various authors

3 stars

As the title states, this YA book is a collection of stories about vampires.  The bright pink book caught my eye while browsing at the library and it was a quick way to pass the time.  My overall rating is 3 stars because I enjoyed most of them but there weren't any stand-out wonders to raise my rating or any major duds to lower it. 

Thursday, December 29, 2022

Black Enough

 Book 37 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Black Enough: Stories of Being Young & Black in America
by various authors

5 stars

Published in 2019, Black Enough is an anthology of coming-of-age stories about black teens in America.  It was an excellent read because of the stories but it also shifted my perspective.  Reading stories where it wasn't overtly pointed out that the characters were black but instead referenced a character's braids (as an example) made me realize how so many books start off with the assumption that the main characters are cis and white unless stated otherwise.  

Although some of the stories covered the heavier topics of the black experience such as interactions where being black (or judged for being black) is a main focal point, many of the other stories were just teen stories about experiences many people have.  I feel like my explanation sounds better in my head than on the page but the bottom line is I really liked this book.

Tales From Outer Suburbia

 Book 36 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Tales From Outer Suburbia
by Shaun Tan

2 stars

Published in 2009, Tales From Outer Suburbia is an offbeat illustrated book with snippets of the unexpected (often dark) side of suburban life.  The illustrations are great but I didn't really get into the stories themselves, and calling them stories is a bit of a stretch.  There weren't many words and everything was happening beneath the surface which is hard to convey when the stories were jumping all over the place without an obvious through line (other than "suburbia" which I'm not sure I would've picked up on as clearly without the title).

It wasn't awful it just wasn't the book for me.

Thursday, December 15, 2022

If the Fates Allow

 Book 35 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

If the Fates Allow
by Rainbow Rowell

3 stars

This short story by a familiar author was a quick way to pass the time.  Setting the story in the holiday season during the early pandemic brought back memories - I'm lucky that my family was pretty much on the same page regarding restrictions but I've heard from others that had to have many tough conversations.

Tuesday, December 13, 2022

21 Proms

Book 34 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

21 Proms
by various authors

3 stars

Published in 2007, 21 Proms is a collection of stories by various authors that all center around the theme of Prom Night.  I picked it up at the library as a quick read and even though I'm many years removed from a high school dance, the stories were pretty much enjoyable.

I loved the line, "...I know that I'm not as alone as people here want me to think. I've got a whole world out there waiting for me, and they've just got each other" from the story "Mom called, she says you have to go to prom" by Adrienne Maria Vrettos.  It really captured the feeling of those who don't feel that high school will be the peak of their lives and look forward to moving on and out.

Whistling Past the Graveyard

 Book 33 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Whistling Past the Graveyard 
by Susan Crandall

4 stars

Set in 1963, Whistling Past the Graveyard is the story of a girl named Starla, a woman named Eula, and the way their lives are changed when their paths cross.

It was the kind of story I read with a nervousness about turning the pages because you just know the situation probably isn't going to go well.  When a white girl running away from home is picked up by a black woman in the South in the 1960's, things can go downhill very quickly.  But the pages kept turning and even though I didn't like all of the choices the characters made, I was satisfied with the story and the ending.

Evidence of the Affair

 Book 32 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Evidence of the Affair
by Taylor Jenkins Reid

4 stars

Evidence of the Affair begins with a letter from one betrayed spouse to another and they continue to exchange letters commiserating as they work through their feelings about their spouses having an affair with each other.

Being told solely through letters adds to the situation of strangers discovering each other because all the reader knows about the characters is what they choose to share on the page.  It progressed well and I enjoyed it as a short story.  I could see this concept being the starting point of a novel as well.


Wednesday, October 5, 2022

My Evil Mother

 Book 31 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

My Evil Mother
by Margaret Atwood

4 stars

My Evil Mother is a short story by Margaret Atwood about a girl growing up in the 1950s whose mom may or may not be a witch.  It was good as a short story because I would've grown tired of the characters in a full book.

It was short, I knew I liked the author, and it was free on Amazon.  Definitely worth the small amount of time it took to read it.

Tuesday, October 4, 2022

Death in the Sunshine

Book 30 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Death in the Sunshine
by Steph Broadribb

4 stars

Death in the Sunshine is the first book of the "Retired Detectives Club" series.  When a murder happens in a gated retirement community and the police don't seem to take it seriously, 4 retired cops work together to solve it.

I chose this book from the "Amazon First Reads" options and the marketing worked exactly as it was supposed to.  I read this book for free and immediately looked for the next book in the series (and would've purchased and read it right away if it was already published).

It started off well and I was invested from the beginning.  Although there were times I was nervous because it was approaching the edge of "too much" (not just one random man but two, Moira keeping a secret for too long, etc.), it turned out really well with the pacing.

I enjoyed the character dynamics enough to continue with the series but the little tidbit at the end hooked me even more and I can't wait for the next one to come out later this year.

Montana 1948

 Book 29 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Montana 1948
by Larry Watson

5 stars

Published in 1993, Montana 1948 is a thin fiction story about David Hayden's reflections of a summer in his youth that drastically changed how he viewed his family and community.

This book stuck with me.  I spent time thinking about it before I went to sleep and almost got up to keep reading.  Since it's 182 pages it easily could've been a one-sitting book if I'd had the time to do it.

Wednesday, September 28, 2022

The Greatest Love Story Ever Told

 Book 28 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

The Great Love Story Ever Told
by Megan Mullally and Nick Offerman

5 stars

Published in 2018, The Greatest Love Story Ever Told is a conversational book by spouses and actors Megan Mullally and Nick Offerman covering many topics about their lives and relationship.  I think a basic knowledge of them would be necessary to enjoy the book because they have a very dry humor.  I bet this would be a really good audiobook, both because of their personalities and also because the book itself is written in a back-and-forth style.  It really feels like they just hit "record" on their phones and then transcribed the conversations.

This was a really enjoyable way to pass the time and it was refreshing to hear people really love and appreciate their partner while also not taking themselves too seriously.  The photos were fun too.

Friday, September 23, 2022

How to Talk to Your Cat About Gun Safety

 Book 27 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

How to Talk to Your Cat About Gun Safety
by Zachary Auburn

3 stars

This would've been an enjoyable satirical read when it was written in 2016 (before the election).  Unfortunately, as I read this in 2022 it's too close to the style of conspiracy theories that inexplicably gain way too much traction and circulation for me to relax into the humor and ridiculousness.

I'm rating it neutrally because it's not the author's fault everything has changed.

Thursday, September 22, 2022

I'll Show Myself Out

 Book 26 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

I'll Show Myself Out: Essays on Midlife and Motherhood
by Jessi Klein

4 stars

Published in 2022, I'll Show Myself Out is a collection of essays about motherhood, aging, and identity by Jessi Klein.

This book isn't for everyone but if you're the audience for this book you will feel seen.  The first essay was a doozy and it just continued from there.  If this wasn't a library book and if I was the kind of person that felt comfortable writing in margins, this book would be highlighted and emphasized in multiple places.

Quote from the Book
"A mother's heroic journey is not about how she leaves, but about how she stays."


Wednesday, September 21, 2022

Virgins and Other Endangered Species

 Book 25 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Virgins and Other Endangered Species: A Memoir
by Dorothea Straus

2 stars

I picked this book up at a sale solely based on the title.  Published in 1993, Virgins and Other Endangered Species is a memoir by Dorothea Straus.  I don't know if she is well-known but I have no familiarity with her.  I also can't pinpoint exactly how old she is (or was, as I'm assuming she has since deceased) but these recollections had a "bygone era" feeling.  There was no rhyme or reason to the stories.  It felt like the slow musings of an elderly relative where you're not sure if everything is true or if their memories have fused things together.

There was a note that the photograph on the cover is the author's mother so that was a cool touch.

Fifty Things That Aren't My Fault

 Book 24 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Fifty Things That Aren't My Fault: Essays from the Grown-Up Years
by Cathy Guisewite

3 stars

Published in 2019, Fifty Things That Aren't My Fault is a collection of personal essays by Cathy Guisewite, the creator of the long-running comic strip "Cathy".  I'm familiar with the comic ("Ack!!!") and the journey that led her to creating it was random and interesting.

She was open and honest in her essays.  There was a lot of focus on food and shame which is something that would still resonate with people but hopefully is improving overall as a society.

She shared a really interesting perspective on downsizing, both from the perspective as an empty nester going through her daughter's room and as a daughter going through her parents' home.  She thinks it's difficult because packing away their things feels like it's "helping them disappear" so finding a way to keep their memories alive while recognizing the need to keep spaces functional is an emotional battle.

Tuesday, September 20, 2022

Rhett & Link's Book of Mythicality

 Book 23 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Rhett & Link's Book of Mythicality: A Field Guide to Curiosity, Creativity, and Tomfoolery
by Rhett McLaughlin and Link Neal

4 stars

Published in 2017, Rhett & Link's Book of Mythicality is a hodgepodge of stories and advice from Rhett and Link, the creators of "Good Mythical Morning".

If you like GMM you will like this book.  I'm not an avid fan but whenever I see them I enjoy the camaraderie and pure joy in being themselves.  This book kept me occupied in the car on vacation and I will pass it on to my son because he will enjoy it too.

Saturday, September 17, 2022

This Time For Me

Book 22 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

This Time for Me
by Alexandra Billings

4 stars

Published in 2022, This Time for Me is a memoir by "trailblazing and award-winning Trans actor and activist Alexandra Billings".  I picked it as an Amazon First Reads without any familiarity with her so this was all new to me.

I kept wanting to get back to the book whenever I had to put it down.  She was raw and open about her life and experiences.  There were also pictures which is something I note as an added bonus when reviewing a memoir.

Tuesday, September 13, 2022

Kid Presidents

 Book 21 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Kid Presidents: True Tales of Childhood from America's Presidents
by David Stabler

4 stars

Published in 2014, Kid Presidents is a juvenile non-fiction book with anecdotes and fun facts about the presidents when they were children.  The book really stresses normalcy - they were just regular kids doing regular things who grew up to have an important job.  It subtly conveyed the message that everyone starts somewhere and anyone can 'theoretically' (because I'm an adult and this isn't Utopia) become the president.

I liked that the book grouped presidents by subject, not chronologically.  It kept things moving along.  It was made for kids but adults would find it interesting too; since it's an unusual focus there are new things for everyone to learn.

It included extra books at the end for continued reading which is especially great for a juvenile book to do for continued interest.

Quote from the Book

"This is Kid Presidents, the book that proves any kid can grow up to be president. Because every U.S. president started out as a regular kid. Just like you."

Saturday, September 10, 2022

Letter to a Stranger

 Book 20 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Letter to a Stranger: Essays to the Ones Who Haunt Us
by Colleen Kinder

5 stars

Published in 2022, Letter to a Stranger is a collection of essays.  Authors were invited to contribute personal stories about an encounter they had with a stranger.  I absolutely love this concept because these were just little snippets of chance encounters with no expectation of longevity.  Plus personal essays by varied contributors is pretty much guaranteed to be a win for me.

Of course I thought of who my letter would be written to.  Mine would be Harold, an older gentleman my husband and I met in London in 2019.  Harold was an older gentleman from New Zealand traveling all around by himself and he was very outgoing.  When we were on a tour together at St. Paul's Cathedral, Kevin offered to take a picture of Harold but instead, Harold handed Kevin his camera and the two of them walked around the cathedral with Harold pointing out things he wanted Kevin to take pictures of.  At the end of the tour, Harold took a pin off his hat and gave it to Kevin to thank him.  We've thought of Harold many times since, especially when the pandemic shut down travel.  I hope he made it through okay and is traveling the world again.

The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry

 Book 19 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry
by Rachel Joyce

5 stars

Published in 2012, The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry is the story of a man who leaves the house one morning to mail a letter and ends up continuing to walk on a quest to see an old friend.

I fell into the book right away.  The pages flew by and it's been awhile since a book hooked me like that.  Towards the end when the walk became more of a spectacle it lost some of the folksiness that I enjoyed so much but I'm still giving it 5 stars for the way it kept my interest from start to finish.

Monday, August 15, 2022

The Ghost Writer

 Book 18 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

The Ghost Writer
by John Harwood

3 stars

Published in 2004, The Ghost Writer is a mystery.  Gerard lives a solitary life with his mom who he knows is keeping secrets about her past.  He also has a longterm pen pal named Alice.  The book covers his travels to try and solve the mysteries of both women.

As I tried to sum up the book in a few sentences I rediscovered one of the problems I had reading it.  There were too many threads to untangle and too many plot points.  There was a book within a book plus the storylines of Gerard, Alice, his mom, the painting, the past characters, etc.

I had no idea what was going on.  At first I blamed myself because I was reading it very slowly so that could explain some confusion.  But then I realized if I was reading daily and just choosing other books over continuing to read this one, doesn't that say something about the book as well?

I rated it neutrally because I can't really make a coherent argument for or against the book and I don't want to try.  It wasn't for me but I acknowledge I may not be the audience and I may not have created the most optimal environment for reading it.

Start Without Me

Book 17 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Start Without Me (I'll Be There in a Minute)
by Gary Janetti

5 stars


Published in 2022, Start Without Me is a collection of life essays by Gary Janetti.  The light but detailed essays were good lengths and the book was an enjoyable way to pass the time.  

It wasn't as snarky as I expected based on his other writings; I enjoy the snark but having these thoughts about his life be a little more heartfelt was a nice surprise.

Quote from the Book
"There could be no social anxiety if there were no social."

Monday, July 18, 2022

Overdue

Book 16 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

Overdue: Reckoning with the Public Library
by Amanda Oliver

4 stars

Published in 2022, Overdue combines the author's personal experience as a librarian with research and interviews to talk about public libraries, their current role in society as a safety net, and whether that is sustainable in the future.

I love the line, "No one is without a voice just because the majority have not been listening."  The author was making the point that she's not a "voice for the voiceless" even though she's talking about marginalized people.  The issue isn't that they can't speak for themselves, the issue is that people aren't listening.

This is an IYKYK kind of book.  For those who work in libraries or frequently use them, it's nice to read about someone who is as passionate about the work and necessity.  I used to work in a library and I immediately recommended it to a friend that still works there (and I checked it out from that library so it's very convenient for her to get it too, haha).  I'm in Iowa so I didn't face the continual physical threats the author did in D.C. but even at our small-town library we had to discuss safety and evacuation plans when a community member became so upset at a piece of art we had displayed that he threatened the director with bodily harm.  And everyone who has worked in a library has at least one poop story.

The book feels different from others because it takes it as a given that libraries are important and should remain.  The author doesn't waste any time justifying the need for public libraries and instead jumps right into the use of libraries as safe havens and why it isn't optimal to have them be the catchall or the only option for those who need a place to go.

It was a little long at the end but overall it was a really good reminder that people care (even as they're burnt out and leaving the profession).

Quote from the Book

"Whenever someone approached the circulation desk at the library, it usually began with one question: "Can you help me?" I have heard this asked with humor, anger, sadness, joy, and defeat...It is a question that reflects what all of us want: to be seen, heard, and helped when we ask for help."

Sunday, July 17, 2022

100 Years of the Best American Short Stories

 Book 15 of my 2022 Reading Challenge

100 Years of the Best American Short Stories

4 stars

100 Years of the Best American Short Stories is a collection of 40 stories celebrating 100 years of publishing "The Best American Short Stories" series.  These stories were chosen to represent both the time period they were originally published and because they stand the test of time.  It was noted that there is no overlap in stories from the ones chosen by John Updike for his Best of the Century book.

I'm a big fan of short stories, especially when published in anthologies with multiple authors.  They give variety in short, digestible chunks.  The book is 723 pages but it's not daunting.  If I don't like a story, I know it will be over soon.  If I like a story, it serves as a launchpad to seek out more of that author's work.  This isn't a 'sit down and read cover to cover' book.  I read a story or two at a time over the course of 2 months.

I like that the stories are presented chronologically so the reader can also see patterns or shifts over time.  It also begins each decade with a little background info of the times and culture.  I also appreciate the author bio introducing each story instead of having one long list at the end.

I recognized most of the authors in the 1960-70 decade.  Other than the most recent decade I've apparently read this timeframe often.

I made a few notes on each story as I read them and include them below.

The Gay Old Dog
That was an excellent story.  I'm glad he finally had a chance to stand up for himself against his meddling sisters.
Other than some of the terminology (using "gay" for "happy", mostly), it did not appear outdated at all.

Brothers
That was a quiet story.  I didn't know where it was going and now that it's over I would still struggle to say what it was about.  But the pages turned quickly and it was a good read.

My Old Man
Meh. I feel like I should've liked this more since it's written by Hemingway but I didn't find the topic interesting and my mind wandered while reading it.  He also used an slur for Italians a lot which may have been okay at the time but even if he had substituted something innocuous like 'Italian' or 'man' every time he said the slur, it would've been repetitive and unnecessary (saying someone's nationality every other sentence isn't a typical descriptor).

Haircut
That was an interesting story.  The author did a good job of using a 'folksy' tone for the narrator without it going overboard into mockery.  I have my theory on what actually happened on the boat but it would be a good one to discuss with a group because it was left open-ended.

Babylon Revisited
That read very quickly.  I felt really bad for the main character but then the ending left ambiguity about his actual intentions.  I'll be thinking about it for a little bit before moving on.

The Cracked Looking-Glass
I didn't like this story.  It felt especially long because there were a lot of words but nothing really happening, and the ending didn't give any explanation at all so it felt pointless to have read it.

That Will Be Fine
This was a quick read.  Having a short story from a child's point of view helped condense the plot since he's only reporting what he sees and the adult reader is filling in the blanks of what actually happened.

Those Are As Brothers
The story itself was good but the ending was abrupt and jarring.  I wanted more.

The Whole World Knows
I can see why it was popular in its time but it was very outdated to me, both with language and with situations.  Because of the unfamiliarity, I had trouble keeping track of what was real and what was imagined.

The Enormous Radio
Wow, that one packed a punch!  It's amazing that even though the mode has changed (radio vs. Internet), this story written in 1948 still rings true about the nature of human comparison and curiosity.

I Stand Here Ironing
Before reading, there is not a title that sums up the '50s more accurately.
WOW.  My heart ached, both for the mother reminiscing and the daughter she was reminiscing about.  To add in the ironing gives a realness - who doesn't let their mind wander to the past when doing menial chores (and who doesn't have those wanderings skew to failings when you're a mother)?

Sonny's Blues
James Baldwin is an excellent writer and I loved this story.  There was so much packed into this short story but it didn't feel overdone.  This story was one I felt but can't necessarily describe.

The Conversion of the Jews
I understand why the author has won many awards.  Even in this earlier start of his writing, it was impossible to look away from the deceivingly simple story.

Everything That Rises Must Converge
That was an unexpected ending.  I wish I could say people like the mother only existed in the past but the story would still apply today.

Pigeon Feathers
John Updike requires concentration so it took more than one sitting to get through this story because I was distracted.  It's interesting that this is the second story from this decade about the disillusionment of religion; it may be a sign of the times.

Will You Please Be Quiet, Please?
The situation felt realistic.  Things spiral out so quickly once a threshold is crossed.  I'm glad it didn't end in violence like I thought it would.

By the River
That was unexpected.  I could feel the tension building and I'm glad the ending wasn't drawn out.

The School
That was short but so creepy.

The Conventional Wisdom
That was a really good and unique story.  I'll be thinking about it for awhile.

Friends
That was interesting.  There wasn't a specific story arc so I wasn't sure what was going to happen or what details were important.  It was like listening in to a public conversation so you don't know the backstory and you don't know how it continued after they walked away.

Harmony of the World
I wavered in and out of interest reading this story.  The personalities of the characters were interesting to read about but the information about the music was too technical and having it interspersed throughout the story was jarring and took me out of the relationship the characters were building.  I understand the point the author was making relating the similarities between the two but I would've been happier with just the present-day story.

Lawns
I had a visceral reaction as I was reading.  I can't say I liked it because it turned my stomach but it was well-written and generated an honest reaction.

Communist
That was a winding story but the main thread was there the whole time and it ended before it turned from winding to rambling.

Helping
That was an engrossing story.  It captured the haziness of the narrator and how quickly one bad decision leads to another until everything is out of control.

Displacement
This story kept me on edge the whole time because I was waiting for something big to happen, the other shoe to drop.

Friend of My Youth
I've always liked her writing and this story was no exception.  It was nice to read fully fleshed-out female characters that had nothing to do with relationships or men.

The Girl on the Plane
It was a compelling story but it made me uncomfortable because the characters were written so realistically I felt horrible for Patty.

Xuela
I loved this author's writing.  I would've read a million more pages of the story.

If You Sing Like That For Me
I felt all the emotions of that one.  It was a little gut punch at the end.

Fiesta, 1980
The author was able to set an enveloping scene with just a few descriptive words.  My head hurt from the tension of the unsaid.

The Third and Final Continent
That was a wonderful story.  I'm glad I'm finding new authors to look into.

Brownies
It's getting repetitive to say I liked this story.  Using kids to tell the stories kept observations surface-level but the reader knew what was going on even if they didn't.

What You Pawn I Will Redeem
This one hurt my heart.  I'm glad it ended well because Jackson could not get out of his own way and I wanted better for him.

Old Boys, Old Girls
This story was absorbing.  It ended abruptly and I wanted more.

Refresh, Refresh
That was well-written but tough to read.  So much unnecessary violence.

Awaiting Orders
That was brief.  It was interesting to have Billy, the character everyone was focused on, never be seen or heard.  Someone can continue to interfere with people's lives even when they're not around.

What We Talk About When We Talk About Anne Frank
The conversation would teeter on the edge of going too far but then someone would bring it back just in time.  The ending brought an abrupt stop to the jolliness and it felt realistic; you don't know the line until you cross it and then it's too late.

Diem Perdidi
This one used short sentences with memories that changed each time they were shared to help convey the uncertainty of her mom's cognitive decline.

The Semplica-Girl Diaries
I understood the overall moral arc of the story but the actual details were confusing.  It took longer than it should have to figure out SGs are human because there was no explanation.

At the Round Earth's Imagined Corners
It was sad but not despairing.  He made the best life he could even though he was resigned to something less than true happiness.