Tuesday, December 31, 2019

A Thousand Naked Strangers

Book 75 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read from November 13 - 19

A Thousand Naked Strangers: A Paramedic's Wild Ride to the Edge and Back
by Kevin Hazzard

Summary (via Goodreads)
published 2016

A former paramedic’s visceral, poignant, and mordantly funny account of a decade spent on Atlanta’s mean streets saving lives and connecting with the drama and occasional beauty that lies inside catastrophe.

In the aftermath of 9/11 Kevin Hazzard felt that something was missing from his life—his days were too safe, too routine. A failed salesman turned local reporter, he wanted to test himself, see how he might respond to pressure and danger. He signed up for emergency medical training and became, at age twenty-six, a newly minted EMT running calls in the worst sections of Atlanta. His life entered a different realm—one of blood, violence, and amazing grace.

Thoroughly intimidated at first and frequently terrified, he experienced on a nightly basis the adrenaline rush of walking into chaos. But in his downtime, Kevin reflected on how people’s facades drop away when catastrophe strikes. As his hours on the job piled up, he realized he was beginning to see into the truth of things. There is no pretense five beats into a chest compression, or in an alley next to a crack den, or on a dimly lit highway where cars have collided. Eventually, what had at first seemed impossible happened: Kevin acquired mastery. And in the process he was able to discern the professional differences between his freewheeling peers, what marked each—as he termed them—as “a tourist,” “true believer,” or “killer.”

Combining indelible scenes that remind us of life’s fragile beauty with laugh-out-loud moments that keep us smiling through the worst, A Thousand Naked Strangers is an absorbing read about one man’s journey of self-discovery—a trip that also teaches us about ourselves.
 

My Opinion
3 stars

I'm not going to review this book.  I read it while sitting with my dad in the hospital and my notes are all along the lines of, "strange to read in a hospital", "maybe not best to read about people dying", and "I may not have gauged correctly if I should read this book".  I finished reading it November 19 and it's the last book I read in 2019 as we transitioned from the hospital to hospice (which I didn't expect while I was reading this) to my dad's death on December 13.

Very much "wrong place, wrong time" for this book so I'm rating it neutrally.

Jay's Journal

Book 74 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read November 18

Summary (via Goodreads)
published 2010

December 18
Things are going from worse to impossible. I'm fighting a losing battle...

Jay thought he could handle anything. The first time he took drugs was for fun. But what started as an escape quickly spiraled into a haze of addiction. That was just the beginning of the dangerous path that ultimately led Jay to take his own life. 

This is the journal he left behind.

My Opinion
1 star

Normally 1 star reviews are ones I hate so much I have to vent and rant but this won't be long.

What's the point of this book?  It was similar to "Go Ask Alice" in that it's obviously an adult trying to sound like a kid and failing miserably.  It was so bad.

So the author can say "retard" and "fruit/queer" multiple times but refers to using the bathroom as having to "go stinky"?  Ummm...ok.

The Future is Female!

Book 73 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read from October 15 - November 15

The Future is Female! 25 Classic Science Fiction Stories by Women

Summary
published 2018
*Note: this collection was published in 2018 but the stories themselves were written between the 1920s and 1960s*

A collection of science fiction stories, all written by women between the 1920s and 1960s.

My Opinion
4 stars

I came across this book in the library catalog while doing a keyword search for something else and I'm glad it caught my eye and I read it.  All the stories were written by women which was interesting but what interested me more were seeing the imagination of the times (the stories were written between the 1920s and 1960s).  The social commentary was insightful (such as a story using rainbow-colored aliens to talk about racism) and it was also fun seeing storylines that I'm sure were new at the time but are now the plot of every disaster movie (one person sacrificing themselves for the greater good).

I wrote a few notes about each story but they're pretty repetitive (how many times can I say "good read"?) so I'm not going to bother typing them out.  There were only one or two stories that I didn't like and the rest were good.  The ones I starred as really enjoying were The Black God's Kiss, In Hiding, Contagion, All the Colors of the Rainbow, The Tunnel Ahead, and Baby, You Were Great.  

Dimestore

Book 72 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read from October 23 - 31

Dimestore: A Writer's Life
by Lee Smith

Summary (via Goodreads)
published 2016

For the inimitable Lee Smith, place is paramount. For forty-five years, her fiction has lived and breathed with the rhythms and people of the Appalachian South. But never before has she written her own story.
Set deep in the mountains of Virginia, the Grundy of Lee Smith’s youth was a place of coal miners, tent revivals, mountain music, drive-in theaters, and her daddy’s dimestore. It was in that dimestore--listening to customers and inventing adventures for the store’s dolls--that she became a storyteller. Even when she was sent off to college to earn some “culture,” she understood that perhaps the richest culture she might ever know was the one she was driving away from--and it’s a place that she never left behind.
Dimestore’s fifteen essays are crushingly honest, wise and perceptive, and superbly entertaining. Smith has created both a moving personal portrait and a testament to embracing one’s heritage. It’s also an inspiring story of the birth of a writer and a poignant look at a way of life that has all but vanished.

My Opinion
3 stars

This was a quiet book that didn't generate real feelings one way or the other for me.  A completely neutral 3 stars.

I'll Be Gone in the Dark

Book 71 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read from October 9 - 23

I'll Be Gone in the Dark
by Michelle McNamara

Summary (via Goodreads)
published 2018

For more than ten years, a mysterious and violent predator committed fifty sexual assaults in Northern California before moving south, where he perpetrated ten sadistic murders. Then he disappeared, eluding capture by multiple police forces and some of the best detectives in the area.
Three decades later, Michelle McNamara, a true crime journalist who created the popular website TrueCrimeDiary.com, was determined to find the violent psychopath she called "the Golden State Killer." McNamara pored over police reports, interviewed victims, and embedded herself in the online communities that were as obsessed with the case as she was.
At the time of the crimes, the Golden State Killer was between the ages of eighteen and thirty, Caucasian, and athletic—capable of vaulting tall fences. He always wore a mask. After choosing a victim—he favored suburban couples—he often entered their home when no one was there, studying family pictures, mastering the layout. He attacked while they slept, using a flashlight to awaken and blind them. Though they could not recognize him, his victims recalled his voice: a guttural whisper through clenched teeth, abrupt and threatening.
I’ll Be Gone in the Dark—the masterpiece McNamara was writing at the time of her sudden death—offers an atmospheric snapshot of a moment in American history and a chilling account of a criminal mastermind and the wreckage he left behind. It is also a portrait of a woman’s obsession and her unflagging pursuit of the truth. Framed by an introduction by Gillian Flynn and an afterword by her husband, Patton Oswalt, the book was completed by McNamara's lead researcher and a close colleague. Utterly original and compelling, it is destined to become a true crime classic—and may at last unmask the Golden State Killer.

My Opinion
3 stars

Good writing so if true crime is an interest of yours, you will enjoy this book.  Maybe...there is the frustration of not have an answer or even suspects to choose from (which is not a spoiler to say).  It was interesting to see the deep dives of both professionals and non-professionals.

Monday, December 30, 2019

Missing Pieces

Book 70 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read on October 16

Missing Pieces
by Heather Gudenkauf

Summary (via the book jacket)
published 2016

Sarah Quinlin's husband, Jack, has been haunted for decades by the untimely death of his mother when he was just a teenager, her body found in the cellar of their family farm, the circumstances a mystery. For years Jack has avoided returning home, but when his beloved aunt Julia is in an accident, Jack and Sarah are forced to confront the past that they have long evaded.
Upon arriving, Sarah and Jack are welcomed by the family Jack left behind all those years ago. But as facts about Julia's accident begin to surface, Sarah realizes that nothing about the Quinlans is what it seems. Sarah dives deep into the puzzling rabbit hole of Jack's past, but the farther in she climbs, the harder it is for her to get out. And soon she is faced with a deadly truth she may not be prepared for.

My Opinion
4 stars

4 stars because it was intensely readable and I read it in one sitting to find out what happened (and didn't completely predict the ending).  However...that rating comes with the caveat that the reader must absolutely suspend belief about all the convenient coincidences and how the story develops (he's able to keep a secret from his wife for twenty years but then she can get all the details within forty-eight hours of setting foot in his hometown because a million strangers talk to her?) and just go along for the ride.

The Lager Queen of Minnesota

Book 69 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read from October 7 - 15

The Lager Queen of Minnesota
by J. Ryan Stradal

Summary (via Goodreads)
published 2019

Two sisters, one farm. A family is split when their father leaves their shared inheritance entirely to Helen, his younger daughter. Despite baking award-winning pies at the local nursing home, her older sister, Edith, struggles to make what most people would call a living. So she can't help wondering what her life would have been like with even a portion of the farm money her sister kept for herself.
With the proceeds from the farm, Helen builds one of the most successful light breweries in the country, and makes their company motto ubiquitous: "Drink lots. It's Blotz." Where Edith has a heart as big as Minnesota, Helen's is as rigid as a steel keg. Yet one day, Helen will find she needs some help herself, and she could find a potential savior close to home. . . if it's not too late.
Meanwhile, Edith's granddaughter, Diana, grows up knowing that the real world requires a tougher constitution than her grandmother possesses. She earns a shot at learning the IPA business from the ground up--will that change their fortunes forever, and perhaps reunite her splintered family?
Here we meet a cast of lovable, funny, quintessentially American characters eager to make their mark in a world that's often stacked against them. In this deeply affecting family saga, resolution can take generations, but when it finally comes, we're surprised, moved, and delighted.



My Opinion
4 stars

First off, I have to again share the story of meeting this author.  My friends and I were on our annual girls' trip to the Iowa City Book Festival a few years ago and immediately after listening to him give a reading of his first book (Kitchens of the Great Midwest) we saw him eating alone at the restaurant next door.  I'm a complete introvert but to my friends' great surprise I actually approached him and invited him to eat with us.  He accepted, leading to a meal with wonderful conversation (and zero pictures, giving away the ages of everyone involved in this story).

As a born and bred Midwesterner (Iowa), I appreciate this author so much for his ability to capture the particular dialogue and lifestyle without completely descending into cliches.  Most people are "homey" and nice and yes, a little naive at times, but not stupid.  Not being worldly is not the same thing as not being smart which is an unfortunate trap authors fall into sometimes when writing about our area.

I know Edith on a cellular level.  I do not like Helen at all - there is no excuse for the way things continued.  This is not the author's fault, this is my opinion on characters as though they were real life people, haha.

This is just a lovely read that wraps up nicely but not sappily.  

Monday, October 21, 2019

Please Send Help

Book 68 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read from October 8 - 9

Please Send Help
by Gaby Dunn & Allison Raskin

Summary (via Goodreads)
published 2019


In this hilarious follow-up novel to the New York Times bestseller I Hate Everyone But You, long distance best friends Ava and Gen have finally made it to the same time zone (although they’re still over a thousand miles apart).
Through their hilarious, sometimes emotional, but always relatable conversations, Ava and Gen are each other’s support systems through internships, relationship troubles, questionable roommates, undercover reporting, and whether or not it’s a good idea to take in a feral cat. Please Send Help perfectly captures the voice of young adults looking to find their place in the world and how no matter how desperate things seem, you always have your best friend to tell it like it is and pick you back up.

My Opinion
4 stars


I mentioned in my review of their first book, I Hate Everyone But You, that I picked them both up at the library at the same time and decided to read them in publication order even though I wasn't sure if the books were related or not.  Now that I've read them, they are definitely related and it's important to read them in order.

Please Send Help picks up a few years after the first book left off and I liked this one more because they were older and their experiences with first jobs were more interesting to me than their first year of college.  I think I also liked it because even though they were frustrated with each other at times it was only little tiffs and not as dramatic as the first book.

Also, as a fan of their YouTube videos and their friend Igor I appreciate that the book character Igor got a little redemption and wasn't grabby any more, haha.

Friday, October 18, 2019

Bonk

Book 67 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read from September 24 - October 8

Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex
by Mary Roach

Summary (via the book jacket)
published 2008

The study of sexual physiology - what happens, and why, and how to make it happen better - has been a paying career or a diverting sideline for scientists as far-ranging as Leonardo da Vinci and James Watson. The research has taken place behind the closed doors of laboratories, brothels, MRI centers, pig farms, sex toy R&D labs, and Alfred Kinsey's attic.
Mary Roach, "the funniest science writer in the country" (Burkhard Bilger of The New Yorker), devoted the past two years to stepping behind those doors. Can a person think herself to orgasm? Can a dead man get an erection? Is vaginal orgasm a myth? Why doesn't Viagra help women - or for that matter, pandas? In Bonk, Roach shows us how and why sexual arousal and orgasm - two of the most complex, delightful, and amazing scientific phenomena on earth - can be so hard to achieve and what science is doing to slowly make the bedroom a more satisfying place.

My Opinion
3 stars

Although I'd heard of Mary Roach this was the first book of hers I'd read and I can see why she's popular.  She takes off-beat science stuff and presents it in an engaging, often funny way.  It's well-researched but not dry.  Especially with this topic it could've be easy to veer into an almost-mockery of the absurdity of some of the studies she cited but she always kept it respectful.

The reason I rated it 3 stars is because the chapters about the surgeries and procedures done, usually involving the penis, made me uncomfortable.  This was due to my personal "blech" levels, there weren't pictures or overly graphic descriptions.  But I'm definitely looking forward to reading more of her books.

Fun fact I learned that doesn't have to do with sex: while the winners of Nobel prizes are announced, those that are nominated but don't win can't be named (by anyone - the nominees themselves, the nominators, the selection committees, etc.) for 50 years.

And it's not really applicable to anything but I have to include a shoutout to ending the book with the quote (about the many researchers who have dedicated their lives to these studies), "Hats and pants off to you all."  

A Few Quotes from the Book

"This book is a tribute to the men and women who dared. Who, to this day, endure ignorance, closed minds, righteousness, and prudery. Their lives are not easy. But their cocktail parties are the best."

"Hormones are nature's three bottles of beer."

This Is Not a Love Scene

Book 66 of my Reading Challenge
read from October 3 - 6

This Is Not a Love Scene
by S.C. Megale

Summary (via Goodreads)
published 2019

Lights, camera—all Maeve needs is action. But at eighteen, a rare form of muscular dystrophy usually stands in the way of romance. She's got her friends, her humor, and a passion for filmmaking to keep her focus off consistent rejection...and the hot older guy starring in her senior film project.
Tall, bearded, and always swaying, Cole Stone is everything Maeve can't be. And she likes it. Between takes, their chemistry is shockingly electric.
Suddenly Maeve gets a taste of typical teenage dating life, but girls in wheelchairs don’t get the hot guy—right? Cole’s attention challenges everything she once believed about her self-image and hopes for love. But figuring this out, both emotionally and physically, won't be easy for either of them. Maeve must choose between what she needs and what she wants, while Cole has a tendency to avoid decisions altogether. And her failing lungs might not wait for either.

My Opinion
3 stars

This was a very quick read with good banter although it felt a little too "cool teen" forced at times.  I'm rating it a neutral 3 stars because I know I'm not the demographic for this book and the things that made me roll my eyes a little are things I would've loved as a teen reader.

Thursday, October 17, 2019

Chasing the Moon

Book 65 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read from September 16 - October 2

Chasing the Moon: The People, the Politics, and the Promise That Launched American into the Space Age
by Robert Stone

Summary (via Goodreads)
published 2019

A charismatic young president issued the historic Moon landing challenge. This book, which greatly expands the companion PBS series, tell the stories of the visionaries--based on eyewitness accounts and newly discovered archival material--who helped America win the space race with the first lunar landing fifty years ago. 
In 1961, President John F. Kennedy proposed the nation spend twenty billion dollars to land a man on the Moon before the end of the decade. For the first time, Chasing the Moon reveals the unknown stories of the fascinating individuals whose imaginative work across several decades culminated in America's momentous achievement. More than a story of engineers and astronauts, the Moon landing--now celebrating its 50th anniversary--grew out of the dreams of science fiction writers, filmmakers, military geniuses and rule-breaking scientists. Going in depth to explore their stories beyond the PBS series, writer/producer Robert Stone--called "one of our most important documentary film makers" by Entertainment Weekly--brings these important figures to brilliant life. They include: 
* Science fiction author Arthur C. Clarke, whose writing inspired some of the key players in the Moon race. A scientific paper he wrote in his twenties led to the U.S. beating Russia in one area of space: communications satellites.
* Wernher von Braun, the Nazi military genius who oversaw Hitler's rocket weapons program. After working on ballistic missiles for the U.S. Army, he was recruited by NASA to manage the creation of the Saturn V Moon rocket. 
* Astronaut Frank Borman, commander of the first mission to circumnavigate the Moon, whose powerful testimony before Congress in 1967 decisively saved the U.S. lunar program from being cancelled. 
* Poppy Northcutt, a young mathematician who was the first woman to work in Mission Control. Her media exposure as a unique presence in this all-male world allowed her to stand up for equal rights for women and minorities.
* Ed Dwight, an African-American astronaut candidate, recruited at the urging of the Kennedy White House to further the administration's civil rights agenda. But not everyone welcomed his inclusion.
Setting these key players in the political, social, and cultural climate of the time, and including captivating photos throughout, Chasing the Moon focuses on the science and the history, but most importantly, the extraordinary individuals behind what was undoubtedly the greatest human achievement of the twentieth century.

My Opinion
3 stars

I haven't seen the documentary but I think I may have liked it more than the book - I kept stopping to look up footage or photos of what they were talking about so having it all laid out for me would've been easier.  I actually feel pretty silly now that I'm typing it out that I didn't just watch the documentary once I started down the rabbit hole of YouTube clips.

It was very well-researched.  As with most non-fiction books my interest came and went depending on how interested I was in the material but everything was well-written.  A downside is the chapters were very long so if I wasn't interested it felt even longer since I usually read until I can find a good break point.

Reading about how such small things could make a huge, possibly catastrophic, impact was a good reminder to always put 100% effort into a task and not overlook the details.

Reading the quote, "We have talked about adding provisions in the space capsule for one hundred twenty pounds of recreational equipment" (Werner von Braun) in response to the question of whether women could be astronauts was a gross reminder of blatant sexism (which wasn't unique to NASA, I'm sure).

I finished this book wanting to watch the documentary and with a few books added to my never-ending "to-read" list (mostly biographies written by the astronauts themselves) so I consider it a win.

A Few Quotes from the Book

"To see the Earth as it truly is, small and blue and beautiful in that eternal silence where it floats, is to see ourselves as riders on the Earth together, brothers on that bright loveliness in the eternal cold - brothers who know now they are truly brothers."  ~ from an article in The New York Times during the Apollo 8 mission

"In comparison with the Apollo photographs of the whole Earth seen from space, the Apollo plaque [left on the moon] made only a brief impression. But its message was the same: The people of the planet were one species, united by universal hopes and dreams and motivated by a desire to explore and learn."

"The generation that came of age in the 1960s [is] the last earthbound generation. They saw in their own lifetimes the shift of man as a creature of a single planet to man beginning the exploration of space. It's the most exciting and significant time in the history of mankind." ~ Arthur M. Schlesinger, Jr.

I Hate Everyone But You

Book 64 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read from September 23 - 29

I Hate Everyone But You
by Gaby Dunn & Allison Raskin

Summary (via Goodreads)
published 2017

Dear Best Friend,
I can already tell that I will hate everyone but you.
Sincerely,
Ava Helmer
(that brunette who won’t leave you alone)

We're still in the same room, you weirdo.
Stop crying.
G


So begins a series of texts and emails sent between two best friends, Ava and Gen, as they head off to their first semesters of college on opposite sides of the country. From first loves to weird roommates, heartbreak, self-discovery, coming out and mental health, the two of them document every wild and awkward moment to each other. But as each changes and grows into her new life, will their friendship be able to survive the distance?

My Opinion
3 stars

This may be fictional life experiences but the book very much pulled from Gaby and Allison's real-life (or at least real-life as they portray it together online) dynamic and personalities and hearing their voices in the back-and-forth was inevitable.

Giving Igor a shoutout (because obviously I was going to picture their friend Igor, it's not a common name) but the character is called "Grabby Igor"...c'mon now, haha!

I picked up their second book Please Send Help... from the library at the same time as this one so I'll be reading it shortly.  I don't know if it's a sequel or the same characters but figured I might as well read them in publication order just in case.

Wednesday, October 16, 2019

An Absolutely Remarkable Thing

Book 63 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read from September 12 - 23

An Absolutely Remarkable Thing
by Hank Green

Summary (via Goodreads)
published 2018

The Carls just appeared. Coming home from work at three a.m., twenty-three-year-old April May stumbles across a giant sculpture. Delighted by its appearance and craftsmanship--like a ten-foot-tall Transformer wearing a suit of samurai armor--April and her friend Andy make a video with it, which Andy uploads to YouTube. The next day April wakes up to a viral video and a new life. News quickly spreads that there are Carls in dozens of cities around the world--everywhere from Beijing to Buenos Aires--and April, as their first documentarian, finds herself at the center of an intense international media spotlight. 
Now April has to deal with the pressure on her relationships, her identity, and her safety that this new position brings, all while being on the front lines of the quest to find out not just what the Carls are, but what they want from us.

My Opinion
5 stars

This 5 star rating crept up on me because I wasn't over-the-top raving about it in my head as I was reading but when I got to the end I realized I hadn't taken any notes because I was so invested in reading it, I didn't have anything negative to say about it, and I was still thinking about it even when it was over.  That equals 5 stars to me.

I appreciate the acknowledgements of having others help him because it really didn't feel like "white male trying to capture young bisexual woman" which is pretty impressive.  I loved the description of her trying to appear casually sexy to someone coming over by putting on a "tank top that was a little too small and sleeping pants that were a little too big" - small detail that was picture-perfect.

Also, I have to throw in this quote from his acknowledgments, "I also want to thank every single person who says, "You have to read this book!" to a friend. I don't care if it's this book; I just want people to remind each other how wonderful books are. Particularly, thanks to the people who work at bookstores who do that every day - professionals who can help you find books you will love and are, get this, even better at that than computer programs."  
YES YES YES (and librarians too)!!!

Quote from the Book
"[I was freaking out] because I needed to make a decision. The kind of choice that you only get to make once and you can't take back and it makes your life totally different, and even if the path is clear, it's still deeply unsettling."

Tuesday, October 15, 2019

Ladies Who Punch

Book 62 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read from September 10 - 16

Ladies Who Punch: The Explosive Inside Story of "The View"
by Ramin Setoodeh

Summary (via Goodreads)
published 2019

When Barbara Walters launched The View, network executives told her that hosting it would tarnish her reputation. Instead, within ten years, she’d revolutionized morning TV and made household names of her co-hosts: Joy Behar, Star Jones, Meredith Vieira and Elisabeth Hasselbeck. But the daily chatfest didn’t just comment on the news. It became the news. And the headlines barely scratched the surface.
Based on stunning interviews with nearly every host and unprecedented access, award-winning journalist Ramin Setoodeh takes you backstage where the stars really spoke their minds. Here's the full story of how Star, then Rosie, then Whoopi tried to take over the show, while Barbara struggled to maintain control of it all, a modern-day Lear with her media-savvy daughters. You'll read about how so many co-hosts had a tough time fitting in, suffered humiliations at the table, then pushed themselves away, feeling betrayed—one nearly quitting during a commercial. Meanwhile, the director was being driven insane, especially by Rosie.
Setoodeh uncovers the truth about Star’s weight loss and wedding madness. Rosie’s feud with Trump. Whoopi’s toxic relationship with Rosie. Barbara’s difficulty stepping away. Plus, all the unseen hugs, snubs, tears—and one dead rodent.
Ladies Who Punch shows why The View can be mimicked and mocked, but it can never be matched.

My Opinion
4 stars

I've never watched The View but I follow entertainment news enough to be able to put faces with almost all the co-host names, hear a few rumors, and see a few viral clips.  Because of this I can't speak to if information in this book is new or if people that followed closely would already know everything.  

I really liked it.  The author did a good job of cutting to the chase and giving out information at a good pace.  I can't imagine the editing process when covering so many years and so many perspectives since pretty much everyone participated and the author has been writing about the show for years (so he had some real-time notes from the times things actually happened to fit in with people's memories looking back).  The book felt comprehensive but not bloated.

People sharing their lives, either by writing a book or by social media or by giving interviews/being a host, always make me wonder about the family/friends that are included in those stories and how they feel and I read two examples in the book that made me cringe a little.  I didn't have as much sympathy for the co-host talking about living with her boyfriend when his family didn't know because that's something she should've known or had time to talk to him about it being a possibility of coming out but the story of the co-host who accidentally outed someone to his parents when she said her Prom date turned out to be gay (she didn't know they didn't know)...eek.

The Dark Flight Down

Book 61 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read from September 8 - 11

The Dark Flight Down
by Marcus Sedgwick
Book 2 of the Book of Dead Days series

Summary 
published 2005

As I mentioned in my earlier review, the first book of this series didn't have any description on the jacket.  This book does but it has spoilers from the first book so I'm glad I didn't read it ahead of time and will not include it here.

My Opinion
4 stars

As I mentioned in my review of the first book, The Book of Dead Days, I went into it completely blind because there was no description on the book jacket.  Interestingly (or at least it was to me), the second book does have a summary on the jacket but I'm glad I didn't read it ahead of time because it has spoilers of the first book.

This book picks up immediately where the first book left off so it is imperative to read them both and read them in order.  There was a good conclusion and arc when looking at the two books as a whole together (there are no further books in the series).

It's on the young side and maybe even Juvenile Fiction, although it was shelved as YA in my library, so it was a quick read but I enjoyed it. 

Quote from the Book
"Every flake that fell hid the dark horror of the City a little more. Hid the horror, and dulled the memory. If it went on snowing, perhaps the horror would go too."

Sick in the Head

Book 60 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read from September 2 - 10

Sick in the Head: Conversations About Life and Comedy
by Judd Apatow

Summary (via Goodreads)
published 2015

Before becoming one of the most successful filmmakers in Hollywood, Judd Apatow was the original comedy nerd. At fifteen, he took a job washing dishes in a local comedy club—just so he could watch endless stand-up for free. At sixteen, he was hosting a show for his local high school radio station in Syosset, Long Island—a show that consisted of Q&As with his comedy heroes, from Garry Shandling to Jerry Seinfeld. They talked about their careers, the science of a good joke, and their dreams of future glory (turns out, Shandling was interested in having his own TV show one day and Steve Allen had already invented everything).
Thirty years later, Apatow is still that same comedy nerd—and he’s still interviewing funny people about why they do what they do.
Sick in the Head gathers Apatow’s most memorable and revealing conversations into one hilarious, wide-ranging, and incredibly candid collection that spans not only his career but his entire adult life. Here are the comedy legends who inspired and shaped him, from Mel Brooks to Steve Martin. Here are the contemporaries he grew up with in Hollywood, from Spike Jonze to Sarah Silverman. And here, finally, are the brightest stars in comedy today, many of whom Apatow has been fortunate to work with, from Seth Rogen to Amy Schumer. And along the way, something kind of magical happens: What started as a lifetime’s worth of conversations about comedy becomes something else entirely. It becomes an exploration of creativity, ambition, neediness, generosity, spirituality, and the joy that comes from making people laugh.
Loaded with the kind of back-of-the-club stories that comics tell one another when no one else is watching, this fascinating, personal (and borderline-obsessive) book is Judd Apatow’s gift to comedy nerds everywhere.

My Opinion
4 stars

I was really looking forward to reading this book and wasn't disappointed.  I read a few chapters at a time to make it last and it was really interesting.  He interviewed many different people and they weren't all recent for this book - reading the interviews he did when he was young was especially fun to see both from his perspective and seeing where the people he interviewed ended up going in their careers.

The interview that surprised me the most was Roseanne (this was before her most recent controversy) because she was surprisingly deep and introspective and wasn't the loud, brash public persona I expected.

This Will Only Hurt A Little

Book 59 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read from September 4 - 7

This Will Only Hurt A Little
by Busy Phillips

Summary (via Goodreads)
published 2018

Busy Philipps’s autobiographical book offers the same unfiltered and candid storytelling that her Instagram followers have come to know and love, from growing up in Scottsdale, Arizona and her painful and painfully funny teen years, to her life as a working actress, mother, and famous best friend.
Busy is the rare entertainer whose impressive arsenal of talents as an actress is equally matched by her storytelling ability, sense of humor, and sharp observations about life, love, and motherhood. Her conversational writing reminds us what we love about her on screens large and small. From film to television to Instagram, Busy delightfully showcases her wry humor and her willingness to bare it all.

My Opinion
3 stars

I'm always a little bummed when there aren't pictures included in a memoir, especially from someone as young and prevalent on social media as Busy Phillips is.  Not anything to affect the rating, just something I notice first thing when I'm flipping through the book.

This book was interesting because I'm familiar enough with her to be able to place the things she's talking about but not familiar enough with her that it was already known.  I had no idea she helped write "Blades of Glory" and that there was so much drama around it with the other writers.

This was the kind of book that's good from a reading standpoint because she lays it all out there but also a little uncomfortable as I wonder what the people mentioned it the book think about it.  Again, not something that affects the rating - everyone can write as much as they're comfortable with and it was written well - but something that always makes me a little curious when I'm reading a biography when the people are still alive.

Quote from the Book
"I have a hard time just existing. I always think that if only I could be somewhere else, with someone else, doing something else, then I would be happy, finally. The hole would be filled. I know that's not how life works. But it's always been the thing that drives me."

Monday, October 14, 2019

The Book of Dead Days

Book 58 of my 2019 Reading Challenge
read from August 27 - September 4

The Book of Dead Days
by Marcus Sedgwick
Book 1 of the Book of Dead Days series

Summary
published 2004

There was no summary anywhere on the book and I mentioned it as part of my review so I'm going to forgo my usual practice and not look for a summary online.

My Opinion
4 stars

In true "Reading at Random" fashion I went into this book completely blind.  I saw it on the shelf at the library, there was no description on the jacket, and I decided to check it (and the sequel right next to it) out based solely on the title.  The fact that they were short books made it easier to take a leap of faith as well.

After a brief definition of what The Dead Days were (the last 5 days of the year in ancient times when the calendar only listed 360 days but they knew it took 365 days to orbit the sun), the author jumped right into the story.  The pacing was good and I enjoyed it but you do have to commit to reading both books because there was not much of an ending in this book and it melted directly into the next one.

Quote from the Book
"The Dead Days have a knack of stretching themselves. When the days are out of the normal flow of time, time can stand very still indeed. All time, and no time. The dead time of the Dead Days."